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Another Kind of Ear Tickling

This week I had a wonderful lunch with a local pastor. Sharp guy. Good church. I believe under his steady leadership, the future will be bright for him and his congregation. During our conversation he briefly mentioned that unfortunately, some in his congregation didn’t care for my church because they believed we were “ear ticklers.” It’s a phrase taken from 2 Timothy 4:3 (NASB), “For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but wanting to have their ears tickled, they will accumulate for themselves teachers in accordance to their own desires…” It’s a passage people reference when they want to rebuke the preaching in a church, and to be more exact, the preachers who do the preaching. “Ear ticklers” are pastors who just say things people want to hear. They are liked not because they are faithful expositors of the Word but because they are sellouts who water down truths and sidestep issues.

Unfortunately, if you’re a megachurch like we are, it’s an easy charge to make. And even though most who level it have likely never heard one sermon from our pulpit, it apparently makes them feel good to slander us. And yes, it is slander (e.g., Mt. 15:19, 2 Cor. 12:20, Col. 3:8).

But it also got me to thinking about “ear ticklers.” Let me give you another way pastors become ear ticklers in their preaching:

  1. When they give the impression their people could never understand the Bible without their help.
  2. When they want to dazzle the congregation with their erudite knowledge of the original biblical languages (which they clandestinely learned from a computer program in their office) even though it really has no bearing on that particular passage for the day.
  3. When they refuse to use lower shelf terms in order that the message might be more accessible for the hearer instead opting to employ obtuse, technical theo-jargon because not doing so might make them sound too normal.
  4. When they’ve obviously exhausted their congregation with 20 weeks of word-by-word (not verse-by-verse) teaching on three chapters in the book of Romans and, even though they’ve run the sermons series into the ground, still continue with the homiletical drudgery because they believe they’ve got the preaching chops to make it happen.
  5. When they use their sermons to moralize the Bible in order to moralize their people because it’s easier to work the Law over your congregation than show them their need for the Gospel.
  6. When they go over that extra 20 minutes week after week because somehow, it would be a great injustice for all they’ve learned in their study to be constrained in the 45 minutes already allotted in that hour and fifteen minute service.
  7. When they walk people through the Scriptures each Sunday showing the Bible to be the best “How To” book of success on the planet but miss the truth that it’s the Story of Redemption telling us the Good News we have failed but One has come and succeeded for us.

“Ear tickling” is very much alive today not only because there are preachers who say things their people want to hear, but because pastors say things they want to hear. Sometimes the man who gets behind the pulpit on Sunday aims to please himself. He preaches to tickle his own ears, satisfy his own sinful passions, sate his pride’s thirst; and those men are found in churches big and small, young and old.

I know they are found in my church because I’ve been guilty of this kind of ear tickling. I found myself saying things I simply wanted to hear, never mind if it helped the person in the pew. Thankfully, it’s something I repented of long ago. That doesn’t mean I never fail, but it does mean I’m more aware if it does happen.

It also helps us see that just because what you say in the pulpit might be doctrinally sound and biblically accurate, there may still be the tickling of ears…yours.

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Dr. Yancey C. Arrington is an eighth generation Texan, Acts 29 Network and Houston Church Planting Network fan, and Teaching Pastor at Clear Creek Community Church in the Bay Area of Houston. He is also author of Preaching That Moves People and TAP: Defeating the Sins That Defeat You, and periodically writes for Acts 29 and The Gospel Coalition.

5 thoughts on “Another Kind of Ear Tickling”

  1. I can attest that yal do NOT say what we want to hear .. I mean yes there are things you do.. but you are best at challenging us with the things we DON’T want to hear.. and that is the only way I have grown over the last 5 plus years in my walk. I can’t tell you how many times I have sunk just a little saying ouch as I listen… and I can not imagine it any other way. A church grows as you challenge us all.. Thank you for explaining the expression and trust me folks.. CCCC will challenge you in your walk. They share their lives flaws and all with us no I am perfect hear me roar pastors there 🙂

  2. As an occassional visitor to your church (I live out of town), I really enjoy visiting your church and listening to the gospel being taught. The praise and worship portion of the serice is always uplifting. Thank you for being “real.”

  3. It’s funny usually the ones casting the stones are the most guilty.I feel that one has to be open an receptive to hear the good news.a true beliver with the holy spirit dwelling inside of them can get a lesson out of even the worst sermon.

  4. That you’ve chosen to address this concern so openly isn’t a surprise to me. I’ve been lucky enough to smile at your open repentance from the pulpit on more than one occasion and I always rejoice at the fact that my pastors have enough insight into their own humanity that when they share the Word, they are actually sharing of themselves as well. I appreciate your humility. It speaks volumes of your character and your recognition of the responsibility that God places on those that are called to teach.

  5. God please continue to tickel my ear… God please, scream in my ears… God what ever it takes; my ears are open!

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